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Tied Up Foreplay: Just Fun & Games - Bondage Optional

Here is a sexy card game that is an erotic adaptation of War. It's an easy bedroom game where tying each other leads to stripping, frisky foreplay and amazing sex. Bondage is not required but you can always include it in this sex game for two.


In this game you want to Tie & Beat your lover many times - all tongue in cheek foreplay of course. While attempting to dominate your lover with higher cards, you receive or perform foreplay activities whenever your cards match. The player who wins all the cards or has the most after a specified time limit wins a sexual favor or fantasy reward.

Setup & Preparation

Define a set of foreplay activities to correspond to each of the 13 cards in a deck. Also specify a set of 13 possible sex play activities corresponding to each card. You can download and edit the sexy card game activity templates. A full, standard deck of cards is used. Shuffle and deal out all the cards face down so that each player has half the deck each (neatly stacked). Ensure no one sees what the cards are - no peeking.

How to Play

Both players turn over the top card from their stack and place them face up next to each other. The player with the dominate card (higher card regardless of suit) wins both cards and places them face down at the bottom of their stack. Aces are high then kings, queens, jacks, etc.

When the two face up cards are tied, each player counts out four cards (first 3 face down and the fourth face up). Count out loud in unison: 1, 2, 3, Foreplay! Again, the player with the higher card face up wins the hand. But, they also receive the Foreplay bonus corresponding to the two cards that tied. The losing player must perform the foreplay activity immediately before the game resumes. If another tie occurs, repeat with the winner receiving the Foreplay bonus for each matching set. Also, for every multiple Foreplay tie, the losing player must remove an article of clothing.

Play until someone wins all the cards or for a set time limit. The player with the most cards at the end wins and receives their Sexplay bonus corresponding to the last winning card.


You score sexual favors from your partner based on how well you figuratively dominate or Tie & Beat them. Play as many times as you like (maybe with a more intense list of foreplay ideas to enjoy). Once you play this bedroom game a few times you'll come up with many of your own variations to spice it up even more.


Here is a list of variations you can apply to enhance this foreplay game:

  • Use XXX playing cards for visual stimulation and distraction.
  • Use two decks of cards combined - makes for a longer game.
  • Include Jokers in the mix. Finding a Joker means the other player removes an article of clothing. Jokers have a value of 1 (Two's beat them).
  • Perform female activity when a red match is found and male activity when a black match is found, none for mixed.
  • Keep track of the last Foreplay tie - winner receives Sexplay activity corresponding to that card.

If you want more sexy ideas for your bedroom games, download the Frisky Foreplay Sex Game. It comes with over 200 foreplay ideas for each of you (male and female). The sexy activities range from warm & loving to wild & kinky. Play the game as is or use the ideas in your own couples games.

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